Addiction Recovery 2017 [Sex] Mode! Attitudes of sexual integrity! The Journey from sexual compulsion to Sexual Integrity.

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Attitudes of sexual integrity! With host Russ Shaw! 21st century strategies fused with third level spiritual meaning. How do we find deliverance and victory if we have tried and failed so many times? Russ shows you some realistic steps toward REAL freedom with what 10 years of podcasting on this subject can teach us about the attitudes approaches, regrets and disciplines of people who arrive at true, lasting freedom. This show is produced from a Christian perspective but don't let that scare you. If you have a problem with Christians I don't blame you. Experience a deeper journey toward freedom for yourself and the ones your life impacts.

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Attitudes of sexual integrity! With host Russ Shaw! How do we find deliverance and victory if we have tried and failed so many times? Russ walks you through some realistic steps toward REAL freedom with what 10 years of podcasting on this subject can teach us about the attitudes approaches, regrets and disciplines of people who arrive at true, lasting freedom. This show is produced from a Christian perspective but don't let that scare you. If you have a problem with Christians I don't blame you! Experience a deeper journey toward freedom for yourself and the ones your life impacts.
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2019-11-04 09:53
last episode published
2019-11-03 16:30
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3.11.2019

S06E35 Coffee With My Ghost Friend

The Halloween, all Saints Day, Reformation Day show! Ever have a vivid dream about someone who’s passed away? And why do those dreams tend to have that person giving us wisdom and/or direction? And ASI’s dawn and sunset with Kanye?
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28.10.2019

S06E33 3of3 I Don't Wanna Go Through The Motions SU3

What's up with ASI and Russ Shaw? After some time and some movment of counchiousness. Going through the motions reminds me of that line from the film The Shawshank Redemption "Get Busy Living or get Busy Dieing" How about your future status update? Eve...
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14.10.2019

S06E32 Status Update 2 Progressive?

What's up with ASI and Russ Shaw? is Russ Shaw a progressive? What do atheists and christians have in common especially when it comes to sexual ethics? I answer a listeners concerns about weather or not I'm a "progressive". As a body of work has it rai...
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25.09.2019

S06E30 Status Update 1 Queen Ant Revisited

This episode has been sliced up in to bite size chunks, for mental digestive purposes. Status Update PART 1 What's up with ASI and Russ Shaw? PART 1 The Queen ant metaphor revisited.
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14.08.2019

S06E31 Minding The Story Gap

In this weeks fap to NoFap... The past is gone, and the future is blank pages. This is a powerful and motivational statement but what is the validity to it? If you get bit by a rattlesnake do you just sleep it off and say the past in the past? No but g...
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5.08.2019

S06E23 Fap To No Fap?

What is NoFap and why is the movement still growing? Russ talks about some ASI season 6 approaches to the amazing place that is NoFap. Shares some of the stories and how he has responded to some of those posts by fapstronauts. ASI247.org
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30.07.2019

S06E29 Andrew's Story of Honor and Honesty

If I’m honest will I be honored? Andrew shares his brave story of bringing extremely difficult things out into the light. No question that healing takes walking straight into truth and honesty. Truth be told when it comes to some of our stories honest...
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19.06.2019

S06E26 Sexual Needs - BodyTalks

When the urge to rub one out, comes calling is there a deeper need our bodies are working to get our attention About? Could it when we are horny, it's not just sex our bodies are thirsty for?
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12.06.2019

S06E27 Sexual Needs FANTASIES

If a close friend or confidant were to ask, how is your sexual fantasy life? How would that feel? What would be stirred in you? And how would you define a sexual fantasy? Improbable or unrealistic mental pictures and movies that play in our minds provo...
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2.06.2019

S06E27 Sexual Needs FANTASIES

If a close friend or confidant were to ask, how is your sexual fantasy life? How would that feel? What would be stirred in you? And how would you define a sexual fantasy? Improbable or unrealistic mental pictures and movies that play in our minds provo...
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16.04.2019

S06E26 Congregating at the Record Store

When it comes to higher power, the universe or God what are we really talking about? Russ reads surveys filled out by listeners to the ASI podcast.
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4.04.2019

S06E25 My Pilgrimage 2.0 with Seth Taylor

Trying and failing so many times is incredibly frustrating! Joined a purity group, accountability group or Bible study and still little lasting results? Praying to God Where is the transformation? I remember that feeling, After working so hard to chang...
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26.03.2019

S06E24 Value, Trust, 12 Steps and Megachurches

Thinking out loud episode. A friend asks, when it comes to trust, what makes you value someones advice? And when it comes to the failure rate of 12 step and megachurches what has one trusting the people leading those organizations?
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12.03.2019

S06E23 Desire, Appetite Yin and Yang

Yin and Yang, child-ish or childlike, flesh and spirit. Is it that black and white? Can a child like faith really transform us from the inside out? And if so what do we do with the childish part of ourselves?
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3.03.2019

S06E22 If Looks Could Kill

Listener on ASI's Facebook group Heart, Mind, Love, Sex and Affection asks... What was your partner’s response to your acting out? Did your wife need recovery after your acting out? How was her childhood and your marriage prior to you acting out?
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12.02.2019

S06E21 Sex, love and Belonging Story

What is the approach when it comes to focusing in on trying to solve a sex problem? Learning some lessons from people and organisations who spend way more energy on judging the path over walking the path. What does Lady Gaga, the film Dodgeball (A Tru...
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15.01.2019

S06E20 Unwanted author Jay Stringer

Kicking off 2019 with an important conversation with Jay Stringer author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. Revealing that which is unwanted in 2019! Knowledge brings opportunity and Unwanted is a ground-breaking resource th...
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31.12.2018

S06E19 Bomb Goes Off 2 feat. Seth Taylor

Now really Closing the lid on 2018. One last show of 2018. Heavy on my heart recently has been listeners going through the pain of life after the bomb goes off. Revisiting The Bomb Going Off with my friend Seth Taylor author of Feels Like Redemption. G...
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22.12.2018

2018 end-of-the-year Xmas Show

Christmas episode and end-of-the-year review of 2018. Lots of material to cover as Russ Reacts to email Facebook messenger and tweets with questions asked and cognitive dissonance to be resolved. Closing the lid on 2018.
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21.11.2018

Sexual Needs 3 "The Self"

What is the need under the hunger and thirst is really about acceptance? How do developed mental messages of value and worth shape and mold our vision of self? Is self care "selfish"? If we don’t except ourselves how can we understand what it means to ...
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23.10.2018

Unfinished Business Sexual Needs 2

Do we end up haunting our own lives with relational unfinished business? The cognitive dissonance around relational attachments and being known. Russ continues to unpack intimacy disorder while addressing things said in earlier shows about his own jour...
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29.09.2018

S06E16 Sexual Needs 1

Is it sexual self control or sexual repression? His counselor said "Russ, If you don’t have an orgasm you’re not going to die!" true but is there suffering involved in surviving the not dying? Russ continues to unpack intimacy disorder while addressing...
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5.09.2018

S06E15 Motivation and the Vicious Cycle

Motivate me! Get back up one more time! How does that feel? How does it feel when ‘one more time’ loses its hope? We all want to be moved and hopefully moved forward but in seeking forward moving motivations can we sign up for motivations that are coun...
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8.08.2018

S06E14 RICK THIESSEN a willow creek network pastor

When large religious organizations hide from allegations of sexual misconduct is it encouraging a level of intimacy disorder? Rick Theissen and I talk about failures of leadership, moral code and breaking trust. And I ask Rick why he still wants to con...
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1.08.2018

S06E13 Integrity and Willows Secrets

When large religious organizations hide from allegations of sexual misconduct is it encouraging a level of intimacy disorder? We wonder why American Christians have such a hard time with compulsive pornography consumption while organizations like Willo...
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16.07.2018

S06E12 Summer of CC 3 Priorities?

A show on priorities? Seriously? Why is that important? Russ talks about self-confidence, self-control, self-discipline and what all of that has to do with priorities. Coming from a guy who’s not the most self disciplined person, what does this have to...
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6.07.2018

S06E11 Seth Taylor and Better Questions

Seth Taylor and I Discuss polyamory, courage being oneself and a little of theology. We eat dairy or to ask the dangerous question, When it comes to debilitating compulsive behavior... can we come up with a better questions? www.sethalantaylor.com
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2.07.2018

S06E10 Compulsion 2 Creativity 2018

Can an encouragement of creative energy replace compulsive energy? Or is the compulsive energy proof that there’s already energy? Can we Channel compulsive energy into something good? Something creative? Something different? Can addressing intimacy dis...
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6.06.2018

S06E09 Wisdom on a Path

A healing path is as unique as the human on that path. What can trip us up is the belief in a one size fits all corse of action. And then over time when that doesn’t work we start to think Is freedom even possible? In this episode I invite listeners in...
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22.05.2018

S06E08 Conversation with Joshua Shea, A BOMB WENT OFF

As sexual integrity breaks down. And the tick, tick of the time bomb runs out... What happens when the bomb goes off? The blast, shrapnel flies everywhere breaking, (most of all) trust. Not to mention the wounds left on close relationships and family m...
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11.05.2018

S06E07 Want to have to or get to?

If sex or insert other pleasurable activity is offered up, do you want to, have to or get to partake?
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4.05.2018

S06E06 Goin Back In Time

Some work I did on Episode 1 Season One. Censoring myself? Russ Shaw Censores Russ Shaw? Gonna have to give it a listen!
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11.04.2018

S06E05 The Red Dragon and the Bowl

The red lizard story 3.0? Red lizard story is one that I’ve used in the show number of times this time I’ve added to it based on some experience from the last few years.
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2.04.2018

S06E04 Post Easter Redemption

As someone who studied pretty extensively the correlation between trust and well-being I wonder how spiritual sojourners here may unpack penal substitutionary atonement. To me I believe the reason it is so popular is because each denomination (or non-d...
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15.03.2018

S06E03 Emo Runaways and Relapse.

The dirt on Russ Shaw! If the psychological community does not recognize sexual addiction as a thing, this podcaster asks, okay then what is the real problem? Did Russ "relapse"? Is that addiction recovery language helpful when it comes to approaching ...
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29.01.2018

S06E2 OK then, What is Intmacy Disorder?

If the psychological community does not recognize sexual addiction as a thing, this podcaster asks, okay then what is the real problem? Many psychologists say sexually compulsive behaviors are birthed out of intimacy disorder. So Russ Shaw your profess...
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15.01.2018

S06 Episode 1 Shedding Intimacy Disorder (Part 1)

Last season Compulsion to Creativity!? And Attitude equles Energy yes! And Doesn’t pulling off any creative indevor take goal setting? So what are the major things that block goals from being accomplished? Mistaking scars for wounds...?
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17.12.2017

S05E42 harassment or good rebellion?

Russ talks about the space between thought and action. What’s the perspective from someone who admittedly has suffered from sexually compulsive behavior? With sexual harassment cases making the headlines like no other time in history is the culture fin...
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20.11.2017

S05 Episode 41 Chuck G's Story

Albert Einstein Said "No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it." A listeners survey and Russ has an early morning coffee shop conversation with his friend Chuck. Put on your seatbelt for this controversial, inspirin...
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17.10.2017

S05 Episode 40 Scott's Story

Season five episode 40 Scott's story Russ records a conversation with his friend Scott. Scott's not a guy from the "purity movement" but a guy who's dealt with devastating blow's via love choking fear and shame. It's marked explicit and it's intense......
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7.10.2017

Episode 39 Hack The Ministry

Russ tells a story about going to the ER last Tuesday. And, Russ and Jim have coffee and discuss the question; what does it mean to hack the ministry? Well, for obvious reasons the word "Christian" for example has been drug through the mud. So many "l...
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22.09.2017

Surrender and Maturity with Seth Taylor.

I just want my unwanted behavior to go away! Are there really approaches that will just merely take it away? Or is there a process of awakening, surrendering and maturity that happens in the process? Seth Taylor and I talk about pilgrimage and the expa...
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30.08.2017

S05 Episode 37 Figit Spinner of Anger and Relapse

Is there a fueled spinning energy behind anger and relapse? If so is there anything we can put into practice to defuse this energy?
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29.08.2017

S05E36 FEEL Something! Turning From The Sin of Purity

Is there a toxicity around the way some unpack or interpret the word purity? If sex addiction could be defined as an intimacy disorder how are we being organic with the flow of love in our heart, mind and emotions? What judgemental filters must be inst...
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19.07.2017

S05E35 Letting go of the mask and treasuring intimacy, Dericks story.

"The sparkle in your eyes Keeps me alive. And the sparkle in your eyes, Keeps me alive, keeps me alive" ~ She Sells Sanctuary is a song by the British rock band The Cult. It is from their 1985 album Love and was released as a single in May of that year...
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7.07.2017

S05E34 Gaslighting Co-D AKA Intimacy Disorders With Marc Azoulay

RAW Audio Episode In this episode Marc Azoulay and I talk about codependency and gas lighting AKA Intimacy Disorders. Check out more from Marc at marc-azoulay.com
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29.06.2017

S05E33 Summer of CC Grace and Cynicism Challenge

I recently heard sexually compulsive behavior called an intimacy disorder. I thought this was interesting and had me thinking about cynicism and grace. And how both religion in the world seem to like to create enemies and othorize people. Is this a sym...
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15.06.2017

S05E32 From a Summer of SA to a Summer of CC?

Three things to think about while moving forward this summer. They all spring from the heart. The heart is the center pumping blood or motivation or life energy through the rest of your life! Russ unpacks a little Jeremiah 17:9 "The heart is wicked wh...
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1.06.2017

Season 5 E31 Marc Azoulay and I talk Codependency and Gaslighting.

Why does ASI have a different approach to SA? Is there a relational component that's missing from most approaches? In this episode Marc Azoulay and I talk about codependency and gaslighting. What if you were the only thing that is in your way?
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11.05.2017

Season 5 E30 Derailing Urges And A new Start

"I will propose an alternative way of looking at behavior that is currently called addiction, seeing it as normal human potential, that of strong bonding. Bonding is an emotional process that creates ties that cannot be shed at will" - Peter Cohen (200...
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